When the Philistines heard that David had been anointed king over all Israel, they went up in full force to search for him, but David heard about it and went out to meet them. Now the Philistines had come and raided the Valley of Rephaim; so David inquired of God: “Shall I go and attack the Philistines? Will you deliver them into my hands?” The Lord answered him, “Go, I will deliver them into your hands.” So David and his men went up to Baal Perazim, and there he defeated them. He said, “As waters break out, God has broken out against my enemies by my hand.” So that place was called Baal Perazim.
1 Chronicles 14.8-11
One of the things that David is well known for is being brave. This morning I was asking myself, how does he do it? In this story, when he found out his enemies were coming against him, he didn't hide. The bible says he went out to go meet them. Running away, hiding, being afraid was not an option. He talked to God and asked Him what he should do and God gave his enemies into his hands.
Many times when we go through situations, or hear bad news the first thing that happens is that we have a battlefield ignite in our mind. We begin to worry. We get scared. We stress out trying to figure out how we will manage the problem. But why? Why is our reaction completely differen't from David's, if we seek the same God?
There is one difference. David maintained his communion with God. Whether there was a problem, or if everything was ok, David was always in communion with God. In every decision he would make, he would consult it with God. So when times of tribulation would come, he did not have to worry because he knew that God was with him.
When a person does not have communion with God, the following happens. A situation comes and the person becomes worried and forgets that God is bigger than that problem. The person forgets that He has the solution. Then we get stressed out or frustrated or sad because we start to find ways to try to resolve the situation with our own strength. In other words, we forget Who is with us.
It is the same thing in a relationship. When we don't maintain our communion/communication with our partner, when we talk to them only when we remember they exist, what happens? When a struggle comes up in the relationship: thoughts start to come to their head; they start thinking their partner does not love them; they think their partner is probably cheating on them, etc. In other words, their is no longer trust. When we don't maintain that communication, we open the doors to doubt. And as you know, once doubt enters your heart then comes the anxiety, worries, fears, and ultimately, destruction.
When we maintain our communion with God, when situations come (which they will), the first thought on our mind is, "God is with me", "God what should I do?", "How can I overcome this situation?" When a person does this, they don't give space for the devil to put fears, doubts, anxiety, nothing. Why? Because the person is aware of Who is with them.
How about you? How is your communion with God? Has it been a steady marriage or an on-and-off relationship?